DENVER — Ben Tenzer spent enough hours at his friend’s house for it to qualify as a second residence by high school. When he would eventually return to his actual home, his parents would ask how his day was. The replies always kept them on their toes.
“Oh, it was fun,” Tenzer would say, as his dad, David, remembers the exchanges usually going. “I hung out with Jason Giambi.”
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