“We never shook hands, we never spoke our whole career” – Dominique Wilkins on why he and Larry Bird never got along over their lengthy NBA careers originally appeared on Basketball Network.
Dominique Wilkins didn’t carry grudges often during his Hall of Fame career, but there was one rivalry that never softened while the games were still being played.
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It wasn’t built on trash talk or off-court friction; it was rooted in competition, the kind that leaves no room for pleasantries.
That tension lived between Wilkins and Larry Bird.
For over a decade, their names sat on opposite sides of some of the hardest-fought battles in Eastern Conference history. Yet, through all those years of trading baskets and bruises, there was never a word exchanged.
Not friends with Bird
Their mutual silence became a subplot of a basketball era defined by personality clashes and regional pride. Bird, the stone-faced icon from French Lick, and Wilkins, the high-flying sensation out of Atlanta by way of Georgia and North Carolina, were never destined to be friends on the court.
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“We never shook hands, we never spoke our whole career, ever until we retire,” Wilkins confessed.
What separated them wasn’t hatred, but a quiet, hardened edge that only long-term competitors can develop. Wilkins entered the league in 1982, at a time when Bird’s Boston Celtics were the standard in the East. Boston had won the title in 1981, reached another Finals in ’84 and ruled the conference with a type of force that suffocated rising teams like Wilkins’ Atlanta Hawks.
The Hawks weren’t considered serious contenders during the 1980s, but they had toughness — and Wilkins was the engine. His blend of relentless scoring and airborne grace gave Atlanta its pride during those years. Every time the Hawks met the Celtics, it was clear that Wilkins wasn’t stepping on the floor to bow to history. He was there to challenge it.
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Their playoff clashes in the late ’80s were particularly intense. The 1988 Eastern Conference semifinals became one of the most celebrated duels in NBA postseason history.
In Game 7 of that series, Wilkins dropped 47 points in Boston Garden, but Bird responded with 34, scoring 20 in the fourth quarter alone and pushed the Celtics over the line. Wilkins left the court without a handshake and without regret. The silence between them continued, not because of bitterness, but because neither man needed to speak to know what had just happened.
Mutual relationship
Wilkins didn’t forget the feeling of that playoff loss. He carried that loss like a badge, proof that he had given everything. The respect existed, buried beneath the rivalry. They never crossed personal lines, but they never tried to cross paths either. Wilkins admitted later that the lack of interaction was real.
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The coldness eventually thawed, but only once the jerseys were off for good. In retirement, the competition faded and what remained was respect. Time, more than words, mended the gap.
“Larry and I have a very cool friendship, relationship that we see each other we always give each other respect and have a short conversations,” Wilkins said. “Larry don’t talk a lot, but the respect that he showed me. I remember after that seventh game he said to me, ‘Man, you gave us everything. We won but we both deserve to win this game.'”
That kind of acknowledgement takes time, sweat and decades of shared battles.
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Their connection now is down to a memory that only two men who went through it together could fully understand. Their paths would officially cross again in 1994 when Bird was holding an executive role in Boston. The Celtics signed Wilkins and he played for a single season.
The respect that had formed through years of collision became more visible in those encounters and the kind of rivalry that defines legacies and burns into basketball history.
And in that sense, both men walked away with something lasting.
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This story was originally reported by Basketball Network on Aug 2, 2025, where it first appeared.